“On the brink of each new breakthrough, there is a crisis of trust and love.” - Father Thomas Keating

Advocacy of the Heart

When the Heart Becomes the Guide

Advocacy of the Heart names a way of living and responding in which the heart itself becomes the advocate, the teacher, and the guide.

In this orientation, the heart is not sentiment or moral preference. It is an organ of perception—capable of sensing truth, holding complexity, and discerning how to remain in relationship without collapse or domination.

When the heart is trusted in this way, advocacy no longer begins from opposition or reactivity. It arises from presence.

Listening from the Heart

Advocacy of the Heart asks us to stay intimately in contact with our own lived experience and with the experience of others. This kind of listening is not passive; it is an active, relational presence. It requires courage, steadiness, and a willingness to remain present even when what is revealed is uncomfortable or uncertain.

As this capacity deepens, something begins to shift. Rather than acting from fear, control, or withdrawal, we learn to respond from relational clarity. Harm becomes less viable—not because it is suppressed, but because the conditions that sustain it are no longer reinforced through our ways of relating.

A Relational Orientation

Advocacy of the Heart is not a position one takes, nor a solution one applies. It is a relational orientation—one that shapes how we meet ourselves, one another, and the larger world.

When practiced with others, this orientation gives rise to a shared field of attention. In this field, difference can be held without fragmentation, intensity without escalation, and truth without exile. Over time, the heart’s intelligence begins to inform perception, choice, and responsibility in ways that no individual effort can achieve alone.

This is not a fixed state or a finished arrival. It is an ongoing practice of showing up, together.

Why Advocacy?

In this context, advocacy does not mean arguing for a position or fighting against an enemy. It means standing for life—within ourselves, between one another, and in the systems we inhabit—without denying complexity or perpetuating harm.

Advocacy of the Heart invites a way of participating in the world that is rooted in care, presence, and relational truth rather than domination or collapse.

An Invitation

If you are drawn to a way of living and acting that allows the heart to lead—one that holds truth, difference, and responsibility within relationship—I invite you to connect.

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